OUR HOME FLOWS IS A dedicated TOOL BOX OF Systems + Communication Strategies to Divide Domestic Responsibility for Dual Working Households with Children.
“I’ve taken Everything I learned as a CEO, Chef, Mama and Wife to help run your household and strengthen your relationship with optimum flows.”
This work is delivered through 1:1 support, practical tools, and live group workshops and webinars.
For a long time, I thought the constant mental exhaustion I felt as a parent was something I just needed to manage better.
Be more organized.
Communicate more clearly.
Lower my expectations.
But what I eventually learned is that the problem wasn’t parenting - it was the invisible systems parents are expected to run without support.
Behind every functioning family is a parent holding an enormous amount of unseen work: tracking schedules, anticipating needs, remembering everything, smoothing transitions, and keeping life moving forward. That mental load doesn’t stay at home—it follows parents into their workday, their meetings, their decision-making, and their energy.
Our Home Flows was created for parents who are doing too much thinking for everyone else.
My work helps parents make invisible labor visible - and then redesign how responsibility is shared at home so one person is no longer carrying the entire cognitive load. Not through guilt, conflict, or “better communication,” but through clear systems, shared ownership, and practical tools that actually work in real life.
In my work, I teach parents how to:
Identify the hidden work that’s draining their energy
Shift from being the “default parent” to a true partner at home
Create shared systems for tasks, planning, and follow-through
Reduce burnout without lowering standards or doing more
Bringing Our Home Flows to Groups
Our Home Flows can also be delivered as a live group experience for parents and caregivers. These sessions create space for honest conversation, practical reflection, and shared language around mental load and responsibility at home.
I’ve brought this work to parent and caregiver groups through interactive workshops and webinars, where participants leave with clarity, tools they can use immediately, and a sense of relief knowing they’re not alone in carrying so much.
“Our company, and especially our Parents and Caregivers ERG, truly enjoyed our workshop with Pace Webb on the topic of mental load. Pace is funny, engaging, and incredibly knowledgeable, creating a safe space to start meaningful conversations about how to better share the mental and emotional responsibilities that often fall disproportionately on one parent or caregiver. We left the session with practical tools and strategies, as well as the chance to discuss real-life situations and challenges. Managing household and parenting responsibilities can be overwhelming, and this workshop was an invaluable reminder that reducing mental load at home helps everyone bring their best selves to work.”
This work isn’t about doing less for your family - it’s about doing it differently so parenting doesn’t require one person’s brain to run the entire household.
When parents have clarity at home, they show up differently everywhere else. They have more energy, more focus, and more capacity-for their families, their work, and themselves.
Our Home Flows gives parents a language, a framework, and a system for building homes that work with them, not because of them.
Warm Hugs,
Pace